Kosov was at work, so it was just Phyllis who I took to the big green shed, Bunnings hardware store, for charity fund raiser sausage with onions on top (controversial. Should they be on top or the bottom?). Phyllis declined the sausage. He thought it would be like a hotdog.
He decided it was his turn to choose a balcony annual, and I really wish I had gone to the posh plant nursery in Surrey Hills. Most of the plants on offer looked like they were the leftovers after everyone had bought the best. We bought a purple pansy, which should be ok. Purple and mauve are Phyllis' favourite colour.
It was then on to Port Melbourne's Bay Street, for coffee and cake. Phyllis bought a small pizza, and I as gay man, naturally bought a slice of lemon meringue pie. We both had coffee and then Phyllis bought a cake too.
Phyllis was looking his absolutely girliest, wearing wide flowery pants, his nails beautifully painted, with plenty of bling and a new wrap over his shoulders.
The back story. At the bakery there are two baristas, both of which Ray and I used to like. One is East European, cute with an almost shaved head. I would guess Latvian or Lithuanian. That is an educated guess. The other I think white Australian, and in summer when he wore tight shorts, well the rear view of him was rather impressive. It helps that they are both really nice guys too.
Well, the last barista I mentioned complimented Phyllis on his outfit and look, and then young female staff joined in with compliments to Phyllis. Phyllis was over the moon with the compliments. I full know what people think when they us out together. Ah yes, younger foreign born with a rich sugar daddy. I need a tee shirt, He is just my tenant. But that would be a lie. While Phillip and Kosov are my tenants, boarders, lodgers, whatever, they have become important in my life, and that was not what I was expecting. I know they will move on one day, but... I don't want to think about it.
Phyllis attended Uni today, which is rare, everything is mostly online, and then later passed the final part of his driver learner permit test after visiting he VicRoads office and he now has a driving learner's permit.
I will suggest he has a couple of professional driving lessons by an RACV approved driving instructor, and I need to check my car insurance to ensure that a learner can drive my car.
I was having my afternoon rest in my bedroom and about 5.15 Phyllis and Kosov arrived home. I could hear rapid fire voluble Tamil being spoken loudly. Somethings up.
I ventured out from my room and there much ado, with Phyllis having lost his phone. He soon went out to check where he has been. Later he went out to buy a new cheap sim card, so he could lock down his bank account. He was stressed, Kosov was stressed, and naturally I am stressed for him. He borrowed Ray's phone, but soon gave up on that. The big problem with getting his phone back is that the battery was flat. I hope some kind soul will charge up his phone and call the number that is not locked on the phone. If your memory is good, he lost his phone last year, the day before he returned to India to see his family. He got it back just hours before he was due to depart.
He came to the kitchen just before 7.00 to prepare my meal. I told him to forget it. I can do it myself. He seemed relieved.
I gave him comforting hugs and assured him even if he doesn't get his phone back, it is not the end of the world. Believe me, I know similar after my Google account was killed.
Ah, the kiddies keep me so occupied. Yes, my insurance covers him. He said he first wants a couple of driving lessons from me. I said not. I found a nice looking RACV driving instructor of Indian heritage. After a couple of lessons, then I will get his learning driver up to the needed hours. For a few years I taught people to drive, albeit not cars.
Tonight I called Tradie Brother for his birthday. He left his phone on his car roof two weeks ago, and it has not been returned after I guess falling off. Oldest Niece is sorting out a new phone and logins for her dad.
Here are a few photos of food Phyllis has made or improved.
I hope that the phone is found and returned. I love that Phyllis was complimented on his outfit and the meals he has improved for you look good. I also really like that they have become a part of your life. A big part.
ReplyDeleteAh, I think we shall all miss them when they have to leave you.
ReplyDeleteI love hearing about their young, whirlwind lives and how you all seem to have become such a close knit family unit.
I recall concern over strangers moving in with you, and now hate the idea of these caring individuals moving out. ~hugs~ You are so amazing and strong, Andrew. ~nods~ I like to think Ray watches over you. Take care.
ReplyDeleteThey are lovely characters! I'll miss them, too when they move on.
ReplyDeleteA few years ago I saw a man put various things on his car roof while sorting out his keys. Including a camera and a phone. He drove off, stuff still on the roof. I chased after him, beeping and waving him down. He pulled over and was very ungracious about it. I think he felt like a fool, forgetting his stuff. But a lot us have done that.
What a full and heartfelt day—between sausage debates, sweet compliments, driving milestones, and phone dramas, it’s clear how deeply connected and caring your little household has become.
ReplyDeleteI'll miss them too! It is great that you enjoy having them around.
ReplyDeleteKids and phones. My granddaughter tends to drown hers in the shower. Old people and phones. I left mine at the gym .Fortunately it was still where I left it
ReplyDeleteI like the way Phylis add a an egg to some of your meals ..good protein….and I did spot some greens Andrew. Great to see that you are being looked after by the lads and are looking after the lads Happy days !
Oh, yes, I'll miss them, too. So fun reading about them and how much fun you seem to have around them.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you have those young men in your life, and I'm sure they feel the same way about you.
ReplyDeleteI love your little family too. You are all quite entertaining. What a wonderful bit of serendipity that you all found each other just when you needed each other most.
ReplyDeleteI see eggs are a popular addition, plenty of protein in your meals. I know people lose their phones, but how? If they aren't in your hand they should be in a pocket or bag. I do hope a new phone is soon sorted, or the old one found.
ReplyDeleteDoes he have the find my phone app on it, so that he can find it from another phone or tablet? It's so useful. On the two noddle bowl photos, is that baked or fried fruit atop the first noodle bowl? I can't tell. But it looks maybe like plums?
ReplyDeleteAh, never mind, I see you said the battery is dead.
DeleteYou are eating well with the assistance of your extended family. Never a dull moment in your current household with lots of fun and drama.
ReplyDeleteThose two young ones do keep you busy, but isn't that good.
ReplyDeleteIt's kind of you to help him with his license and the use of your car.
Gosh, another lost phone, some young ones never learn and keep losing their phone, expensive things to keep having to buy as well let alone all the bank details and so on.
Your food looks nice too.
As one door closes another opens….Ray left through one door, the young lads entered by another. You just never know what’s going to happen in your life do you?
ReplyDeleteMaybe a gift of a ‘man bag’ for the forgetful one - one with a section for a phone
I think we are all enjoying your household tales. I can just imagine Phyllis' pleasure at the compliments he received
ReplyDeleteThe sons you never had.
ReplyDeleteDishes of food don't have to be huge, do they? They just have to be attractive to look at and delicious to your taste buds.
ReplyDeleteThose guys are family to you, it's very heartwarming.
ReplyDeleteThe whole phone thing, well I know it's my age but I don't like how dependent we all are on them. Hope it's sorted now.
Alison in Wales x
Oh my gosh. A lost phone--or two---Ack. That's like losing an electronics body part. Great post, Andrew. Have a good one.
ReplyDeletePoor Phyllis.I would be freaking out. Somehow I think these two will be in your life for a long time, Andrew. ;-)
ReplyDeleteA family already grown-up. That is rather sweet.
ReplyDeleteYes, we are getting attached to the boys too!
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